Today, this topic came into my mind after I observed a male colleague of mine for quite some time. I started to notice him since mid of last year after I broke off with anonymous, and what makes me starts observing him was he used to hang out having tea, lunch and/or dinner till night about 8-9pm almost 5 days a week with another female colleague other than work matter despite than spreading rumors. Will it be meeting up for work matter? Why isn’t he goes home to have dinner with his family? Isn’t he supposed to spend more time accompanying his wife and children especially? And all these doubts came into thoughts lately.
He is a mid 30s man married with 2 children and she is in her late 20s. Both of them close to each other due to work and affair sparks because this, perhaps. I have no doubt that one shouldn’t gossips about other but this is what been speculating in the office. We can’t blame those who came out with this kind of thought / statement having seen both of their daily behavioral which I would also say “too close” and suspicious. This has also recalled my memory on Anonymous relationship with that other girl. : ( Hence, I think it’s definitely a big no no for a guy to work too close with his female colleague till he forgot when is the time that he should go home either for a rest / to his family. No matter how hectic the work is, no matter how close the relationship among colleagues… the very 1st priority will still be the one you love, be it yourself, your other half or your family unless the one you love is your work or colleagues. So, guys out there, please identify the rightful boundaries + give due consideration whenever you concentrating in your work and more importantly, twice the consideration when working along with female colleagues. Why? Because guys just can’t control what they intend to do as they will be physically superseded most of the time without realizing that it’s actually a red alert.
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